A man is either developed or deformed by adversity. It depends on the attitude he takes when things go wrong, on whether he expands into yes or contracts into no.
“That should not have happened.” This is crazy talk. It happened. Now what?
The idea isn’t to change yourself but to accept yourself. Acceptance changes everything.
Listen more, talk less, let it be.
What happened had to happen. How do we know this? Because it happened.