House rules

Do not complain. Do not argue. Do not contradict yourself. Do not compromise.

Counselling men

It is often a variation on the same affliction: a man attacked, disabled or weaponized by his own mind while nursing a belief that the source of his suffering lies outside of himself.

Tighter, please

There are two kinds of fear. Phobic fear draws us away from what we fear.  Counter-phobic fear, which looks a lot like anger, compels us to attack and destroy what we’re afraid of. Fear generates mental positions called beliefs. These are a corset for the spiritually incurious.

Negative thinking

Every negative thought I’ve ever had has been wrong, misleading or self-destructive. I wish I’d figured this out earlier. See what I mean?

Me and my munitions

Every negative thought is an attack on someone or something. Some of us are war factories.