Blaming and faming

Nothing that happens has a sole cause. There are numberless causes for everything. Thus, blaming is a stupidity and faming a conceit. We’re not in control. Everything that happens, happens as it must.

Guy questions

“Was I a man or a jerk?” asked the celebrated author Saul Bellow on his deathbed. This is a classic guy question. The answer to guy questions is typically not either/or but both/and.