Don’t take sex too seriously. It is, after all, just a habit. Habits can be indulged, cultivated, hung onto, detached from or broken. Whatever seems right and natural, that’s the thing to do.
What we call the human person is a 50 trillion-celled constellation of habits and memories. When these go, so does the person.
Freedom is not freedom to do this or that. It’s freedom from something.
Man’s principal confinements are habit and memory.
There are habits of the head, the heart and the body. Of these three centres of intelligence, the body is the most difficult to de-condition. It’s where memories congeal. And where pain is.