Man is a three-brained animal: head, heart, gut. The gut brain is the sex centre. It has two modes of being: attraction or indifference. Pills to enhance sexual function can override indifference but they cannot alter it.
Inner peace is a state of being, not an emotion. Emotions are a response in the body to thoughts in the head about something that happens. Inner peace is indifferent to what happens.
Co-dependence is a useful term. It means: What we cling to, we suffer from. Hold on to nothing.
The sex center (or lower Tantian) is located three finger-widths south of the navel. It has two operational modes—attraction and indifference. This “golden oven” has a child-like simplicity. It’s thoughtless and true.
If you really want to help someone, keep away from him. A desire to help disqualifies one from helping.