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No one wins an argument. An argument is one mental/emotional structure bashing against another. There may be noise, excitement, even victory, but there will be no peace. The chief blessing of the natural world is that it has no opinions. It is perfectly capable of taking defensive measures, as it is doing right now, but it has no opinions. It will not argue with humans.



The habit of unnecessary speech reduces us, turns us trivial.

Keep your speech impeccable. That is the first of The Four Agreements. Im-pectatus is Latin for “without sin.”

What is sin? Sin is what is unnecessary. So says Gurdjieff, that coal-eyed Russian whom I love so much.