Dude, step out of your head. Be the space she’s asking for.
Freedom is not the freedom to do something. Freedom is freedom from something.
It is only when we are revolted by our own anger that the possibility arises of stepping out of it.
Lao Tzu: “If one is sick of sickness, then one is not sick.”
Don’t get involved with your thoughts. Let them come. And let them go.
Resistance invigorates your opponent. (You can watch it happen.) Therefore, resist nothing.
What happens to darkness when light floods the room? Where does it go? What went?