One of the things former cancer patient Anita Moorjani learned from her NDE was: We attract what we fear.
Fear is the big daddy, alright. Anger is a mere appurtenance, fear’s little boy.
Fear is not overcome; it’s displaced by joy, by doing what we love, by pleasing ourselves. Love, then, is not a measuring out. It’s a surplus, an overflowing.
Fear enters the picture when I think I have to please someone other than the I that I am.
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