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Men’s work

Contrary to cultural imperatives, our life task is not to get educated, make money, have kids and die discreetly. It is to find ourselves within ourselves. Non-stop doing is a morbid state. Gentlemen, turn off your engines.


In the later stages of my counselling career, I often became aware of a white aura around the head of the man I was working with. This usually happened when our talking slowed down, and we were just two men looking at each other