Tag Archives: silence


What we call ‘ego’ is a mind addicted to thinking. Does it need to be said that thinking about this addiction can only feed the addiction? A higher faculty than thought is required.

Men’s work

Contrary to cultural imperatives, our life task is not to get educated, make money, have kids and die discreetly. It is to find ourselves within ourselves. Non-stop doing is a morbid state. Gentlemen, turn off your engines.


In the later stages of my counselling career, I often became aware of a white aura around the head of the man I was working with. This usually happened when our talking slowed down, and we were just two men looking at each other