True relationships are run on actions, not words. Words have this shortcoming: they’re not facts. While they may point to or symbolize a fact, they’re obviously not what they point to or symbolize. You can’t eat the word bread.
If you ask nine different people what man is, or what God is, or what anything is, you’ll get nine different answers. We use words thinking they will mean the same thing to others as they mean to us. But they don’t. They can’t. Everybody understands everything through the filter of his own experience.
Numbers are clear, but words are vague, foggy, obfuscating and contradictory. That’s why the heart doesn’t use them, and why lovers need silence.